So Friday I experience the worst heartbreak that I have ever experienced. I didn’t think I could ever experience that pain. What’s the first thing you do when you’re hurt? You call your friends. I have to tell you guys I have some of the best friends a girl could ever ask for. I’m not gonna discuss the happened because I’m not ready yet.
I think it’s important to have closure in any relationship that ends – from a romantic relationship to a friendship. You should always have a sense of clarity at the end and know why it began and why it ended. You need that in your life to move cleanly into your next phase. Jennifer Aniston
For this post, I wanna talk about the types of friends you need in your like. First, you need the Feisty Friend. Whenever I tell one of my best friends Shannon what I’m going through She wants to stab someone. You need that friend that’s going to be angry for you so you don’t have to be. You need that one rid or die friend that want to fight for you.
Then you need that friend that Caring Friend, That friend that drives a million miles so you don’t have to be alone. That would be my friend Myesha. The first thing she asked was where are you, and do you have anybody? When I said No she wanted to take off work just to be with me. Of course, I wouldn’t let her but it still felt good that I had someone who would drop everything just to be with me in my time of need.
Now you need that friend who Feels Your Pain, you know that friend who has been there done that, and is not going to judge you for the way you’re feeling. That one friend that gives you hope. That would be my friend Ellyse. She’s been there through it ALL and can honestly understand how I’m truly feeling and won’t judge me or talk down to me about having feelings that most people wouldn’t understand.
What about the friend who is just like you and can keep it 100, That would be Octavia. Not only do we have almost the same name but we’re just alike. So I can keep it 100 and say whats on my mind and she can tell me exactly how it is, and I won’t trip. I love her for that.
Lets No forget about the Listening Friend. That would be Falicitey and Dwanna, The had no idea what I was going through but listened. I love those friend who knows they haven’t experienced the pain you went through and know not to comment on it but instead just let you get off your chest.
One type of friend you have to try and stay away from is the Judgy Friend. I don’t have any of those. Never have those friend who is going to judge your situation. Keep friends in your corner who is always going to be there for you.