**Disclaimer** This is one of those posts where I overly share LOL
So, for the last year, I had been talking to this guy I met on Soul Swipe (the black Tinder) This dude is pretty dope, he’s handsome, smart, and corny (in a good way). I know what you’re thinking “what’s the problem?” well the problem is he’s just not into me. So I’m gonna make this blog post fun, This post is 5 Signs He Showed Me He Wasn’t into Me.
I don’t think we’ve had a conversation where it was truly about me. He’ll text me “How are you?” and I’ll say “I’m ok How are you?” and he’ll tell me about his day, and go on and on about himself not knowing I was in the middle of a completely shitty day. I think because I liked him (Ok maybe I still like him) so much it didn’t bother me because I was happy he was even thinking about me.
Our Conversations very rarely go beyond sex my friends know that I have a dirty mind, it is what it is. Any time someone is willing to talk about sex with me I’m totally down, so mix that with someone one you really like and I’m like a deer in headlights. I hate to say it but I have a one-track mind. I just think that because our conversations are so intense when we talk about sex that I thought he was into me.
He doesn’t want to get to know me or take our conversations past text. Yes, peeps, y0u’ve read that right, I have known this dude for over a year and we’ve never had a phone conversation, no facetime no nothing. I also asked him if we could “get to know each other better” and the reply was “yeah I know you wanna get to know me better, but we live so far apart” I had to have a sit down with my self and say “He’s just not that into you bruh”
He’s never supported me but loves when I support his music Nope he’s never read any of my blog post but yet I’ve heard, bought, and supported all his music. I know… please don’t kill me.
He told me he has a girlfriend while being intimate I don’t think I really need to elaborate on this one. It is what it is…
Ladies follow the signs, in the back of my mind I knew he wasn’t into me, but I figured if I showed him I cared, and shared the same interest it would make him want me. I’m not at all mad at this guy or myself. Dating is new to me, and there is no right or wrong way to date, I’m simply learning.