Has anyone in Los Angeles been to Wi Spa in Koreatown? After 5 days at Lightning in a bottle, my friend suggested we go to this place to cleanse. We spent 7 hours there. It was nothing of what I expected. 7 hours of eating, sleeping, reading, a variety of saunas(salt, clay, ice, jade stone, etc.), lounging, jacuzzis, and open showers. I went to the open seated shower section. The seated shower section had a huge mirror in front of me. It allowed me to access so much attention to myself while i bathed, it was healing. Myself and two friends of mine, the three of us sat naked in the same row – being nostalgic and talking about what we missed and learned from Lightning in a Bottle. I am looking at the leftover glitter between my toes, the fainted scar I have on my knee from 1st grade… running away and falling shortly after shoving a boy in the lunch line for pulling my hair. I haven’t had polish on my nails and toes for 6 weeks now. I’m obsessed with classic red. It’s a challenge to not have any polish on, but I think i’m finding every way to challenge myself these days hahaha. I’m still simplifying the products I use and on the verge of creating my own personal care products- like lavender body and face wash, deodorant… more natural, less ingredients. I’m paying more attention to my skin and nail growth. I’m paying attention to my emotions more with certain people. Am I reacting? Am I being triggered? I am fine tuning what I like and committing to it. I’ve been slippin on some of my personal goals in the last week. No major distractions, but a minor distraction. Minor distractions that could lead to a MAJOR MAJOR issue within myself, by choosing to stay in a cycle that I am already aware I fall into. I’m backing up and redirecting the course. I am committed to changing self destructive behavior. Coming out the glitter cloud, back to the spa. If you need a day to melt away, this place costs $25 to get 24 hour access to their facility. Delicious food paid for separately on site. The same with any additional services you may want… like massages. They have everything you need, you can walk in with just yourself. Towels, robes, toothbrushes… they have it all for you. Cleansing is a major part of sexual activities and being at the spa made me think about the class I took, The Womb and Yoni Eggs, discussing tips for sexually active men and women. The class affirmed what I already learned but dropped many facts on men’s sexual health that I didn’t know, like kegels for men. So for women to attract new magic wand energy and for men to posess new magic wand energy… read notes below from the class.
1. YOU DESERVE PLEASURE.
2. PEE BEFORE AND AFTER SEX.
It’s a natural cleansing act. During sex, there is fluid exchange and other bacteria living happy and free, ready to multiply. Go pee. Men, politely tell her to go pee.
3. TRACK YOUR CYCLE.
Know when you are ovulating, know when it is safer to have sexual intercourse with limited possibility of getting pregnant. Birth control took power and responsibility from the man. There is a societal insecurity when it comes to women’s sexuality. When it comes to birth control, everyone is in the flow… the man acts clueless, playing into the societal insecurity with womens bodys. Women are not questioning what is being put into their wombs because, bottom line, women want to avoid unwanted pregnancies. The flow is being fucked up because of our all around lack of education. The moon cycle affects women and is part of our energetic body we operate in. As above, so below. Click here for the article, Controlled Since Birth, providing more insight on birth control pills.
A common fact I hear from women is how they take care of the birth control, without the man knowing anything about it. For men, learn how to hold your seed. You are just as responsible in sexual play. Learn how a womans body works and how to work with your own sexual energy. Fertility management is not just for the women. Men might deal with bitchy, passive, irritable personalities from women because women are taking responsibility for something in the relationship or for all of the fertility management. Men, please claim responsibility to your sexuality and spread the word. Women, talk more about it, try to find the language necessary to have the conversation.
4. HOW TO KEEP YOUR PUSSY TIGHT. Hello, Yoni Eggs.
Not only does the crystals higher energy purges out the wombs lower frequencies, but strengthens the pelvic floor, essential for women of all ages. A strong pelvic floor is highly beneficial FOR MEN too(article on this later). Your magic wand is a muscle. Work it out. Learn the exercises. Check out my other article on Crystal Power using yoni eggs.
5. HOW TO HONOR YOURSELF AS THE DIVINE GODDESS YOU ARE.
Honor your divine goddess by becoming aware of your womb, by knowing what affects it, what the womb needs to thrive, and how you can manifest from the awareness of your womb, recognizing the womb as a portal for creating life… creating expression of some form.
6. SEX IS POWERFUL ENERGY AND SHOULD BE RESPECTED AS SUCH. EDUCATE YOURSELF.
Start by reading books on Tantra, Mantak Chia, and The Dao. I read introduction to Tantra so far and articles on The Dao. It has and is currently altering my whole sexual perspective, creating more sacred moments with breath and present moment awareness. Men can place their wands in women’s wombs, and the womb has the ability to bring life into this world. When men wave their wand inside a woman’s womb… you are touching trauma, fear, pleasure… things are being unleashed. Men have the ability to conjure up energy from outer space and release it into the women, giving information to the women. How magical is that? We all have the ability to create from pure energy. Sexual energy is so powerful, certain positions can heal specific organs. Sex is for pleasure, healing, manifesting, or procreation. If you masturbate… masturbbate to financial freedom, to bringing in more love in your life… and less masturbating to the random hot guy/girl.
7. HOW TO ORGASM!! AND SQUIRT (if we’re putting cherries on top).
Learn about your body. Study it, but surrender yourself while in sexual pleasure. When we orgasm, the body releases natural pain relief hormones, helping with back and leg pain, headaches, menstrual cramps, and promoting restful sleep. Women have a fluid inside of us that doctors and scientists have no idea where its coming from, the sacred squirting fluid. How magical are we? Let us know and connect to our bodies more so women may squirt and/or be with partners that allow women to surrender to the squirt.
8. HOW TO ENERGETICALLY CLEANSE YOUR WOMB AFTER SEX.
Women have a pH balance to maintain in our wombs. The pH balance can be disturbed by men with an acidic penis – coming from the quality of semen produced… from foods you eat, from the healing work that has/has not been done, and what you do with your magic wand when you put it inside a women.. You have the ability to program her. You are coming into contact all of her. If you want to deal with beautiful women that support and nurture you… then make powerful decisions on whom you share your wand with. Men must tune into how magical you are. You can bring a women to higher heights or you can destroy her. Again, let us share responsibility more. How do we energetically cleanse ourselves? Crystals are a great way to cleanse. Crystals have generations of stored information and healing properties that guide us energetically on this earth. A clear quartz would be fresh!
9. HOW TO MANIFEST YOUR DESIRES BY HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR WOMB.
We are in constant manifestation. Its our human power… the quality of your manifestations are highly tied to your sexual energy. When you think it, you can see it, you start to feel it… that’s powerful. There is an avatar in your mind that you see yourself as in your head. I don’t know about you, but once I can visualize my avatar doing something I want, everything around me falls into place. Sometimes we cannot see what we lack the education around us to SEE. We may think we are not worthy of the manifestation because we lack the education. Whew. Don’t doubt your power when you are not manifesting what you want, instead witness the blockages that came up, what beliefs are surfacing, what stories are you not letting go of to see the wander of what’s to come. Then question it until it’s in your present moment. Develop how it may relate to the womb.
10. DON’T EVER BE AFRAID TO ASK YOUR PARTNER FOR A STD CHECK & THE PAPERWORK BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX. No explanation needed here.
We can all relate better to each other sexually when we put these 10 tips into play.
Love and Knowledge,